AFFINITY™

AFFINITY™ Pastoral Care Program

Professional Pastoral Care System

Brooks Consulting & Training Solutions
Dr. Vanessa R. BrooksMental Health Executive Leadership Consultant & Educator
AFFINITY™
WELCOME TO AFFINITY™

Establish and operate a pastoral-care program your church can trust.

Hello, and welcome to AFFINITY™. I’m Dr. Vanessa R. Brooks, and I designed this system to help churches establish and operate a pastoral-care program with a clear structure, defined responsibilities, practical tools, and a higher standard of care.

Dr. Vanessa R. Brooks
WELCOME VIDEO

Welcome & How to Use AFFINITY™

This short welcome will introduce you to the AFFINITY™ Pastoral Care Program and show you how the five-step framework, policies, procedures, and working tools fit together.

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THE AFFINITY™ FIVE-STEP CARE FRAMEWORK

Build the program one step at a time.

The church moves through five program-development stages. The first two establish the program; the next three establish how care is assessed, connected, and continued.

1. Prepare for CareBuild the people before asking them to care for people.
2. Organize the CareEstablish leadership, roles, authority, policy, ethics, and boundaries.
3. Assess the CareUse a consistent way to understand what is happening.
4. Connect the CareDetermine the appropriate care, collaboration, or referral.
5. Continue the CareKeep people supported after the initial response.
ORIENTATION

Meet the AFFINITY™ Five-Step Care Framework

The intellectual and operational foundation for the program.

ORIENTATION

What AFFINITY™ Is

AFFINITY™ is a pastoral-care policy and operating system that teaches churches how to establish and operate their pastoral-care program.

The goal is not simply to teach pastoral care. The goal is to help the church establish a pastoral-care program it can operate.

The Foundation

The five-step framework was intentionally derived from Dr. Vanessa R. Brooks’s five dissertation research findings, the Human-Centered Leadership Model, and the AFFINITY™ pastoral-care philosophy.

PrepareMental-health education, theological awareness, cultural competence, religious coping and trauma.
OrganizeClergy role, boundaries, accountability, burnout prevention and program administration.
AssessWhole-person assessment informed by culture, theology, relationships and life context.
ConnectBridging pastoral and professional care through scope, collaboration and referral.
ContinueBelongingness, psychological safety and continued support.

Three Intended Outcomes

Feel EquippedLeaders know what to do without carrying everything.
Build the TeamCare becomes shared responsibility.
Make People Feel Cared ForPeople experience safety, connection, belonging and trust.
Ready to Begin?

Start with Prepare for Care and move through the five stages in order.

STEP 01

Prepare for Care

Build the knowledge and readiness leaders need before they begin providing pastoral care.

STEP 1 OF 5
WHY THIS MATTERSPastoral leaders may be among the first people someone turns to when something is wrong.
WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOWFoundational mental-health knowledge, cultural context, religious coping, caregiver well-being, and pastoral scope.
WHAT YOU'LL DORecognize concerns, ask informed questions, and distinguish pastoral care from clinical diagnosis and treatment.
WHAT YOU'LL BUILDA shared mental-health literacy foundation for your pastoral-care team.
WHEN YOU'RE DONEYour team will be better prepared to recognize concerns and respond responsibly within its role.
LESSON

Mental Health Education: Foundational Knowledge for Pastoral Care Leaders

Pastoral leaders do not need to become clinicians to provide responsible pastoral care. They do need enough foundational knowledge to recognize concerns, understand the whole person, ask appropriate questions, respect faith and culture, and know when additional care may be needed.

Why this belongs in Prepare for CareAFFINITY™ begins with preparation because pastoral-care leaders need foundational knowledge before they are asked to make care decisions. This preparation draws from Dr. Vanessa R. Brooks's research on mental-health education, theological awareness, cultural competence, religious coping, and religious trauma, alongside Human-Centered Leadership principles that support trauma-informed, resilient, values-based care.
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Foundational Mental Health Knowledge

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First responders in the Black churchIn many Black church communities, pastors and pastoral leaders may be among the first people someone turns to when something is wrong. In AFFINITY™, “first responder” describes the pastoral-care role of being an early point of recognition, support, and connection—not a clinical role.“Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ.” — Galatians 6:2

Mental Health Literacy

Mental-health literacy gives pastoral-care leaders a practical foundation for recognizing concerns without turning pastoral care into clinical practice.

01RecognizeWhat might I be seeing?+

Learn basic information about common mental-health conditions and experiences and recognize changes that may warrant further attention. Signs and symptoms can inform questions; they do not establish a diagnosis.

Pastoral lens: Pay attention to meaningful changes in mood, behavior, functioning, relationships, sleep, coping, or safety.
02UnderstandWhat may be shaping this person's experience?+

Consider the person's experience in context. The person's culture, relationships, faith, stressors, supports, and previous experiences with care can shape how distress is understood and addressed.

Pastoral lens: Ask rather than assume. The person's culture, relationships, faith, stressors, and previous experiences with care may shape how distress is understood and addressed.
03RespondWhat belongs within my role?+

Provide pastoral support within your training, role, authority, and established AFFINITY™ policies. When needs exceed that scope, connect appropriately.

Pastoral lens: You can support a person without diagnosing or treating a mental disorder. Pastoral leaders use this knowledge to recognize concerns and respond within their role.

Etiology: Why We Consider More Than One Factor

Etiology refers to the causes, origins, and contributing factors associated with a condition. When we talk about the etiology of mental illness, we are recognizing that mental-health conditions can develop through the interaction of multiple kinds of factors rather than one single cause.

What you're about to see: The six cards below identify broad categories of factors that can contribute to the development or course of mental-health conditions. They are biological, psychological, social and relational, environmental, trauma and stress, and culture and context. Understanding these categories helps pastoral leaders look at the whole person instead of assuming that every mental-health concern has the same cause or explanation.
THE WHOLE
PERSON
BiologicalPhysical health, genetics, brain and body processes, and other biological influences may be relevant.
PsychologicalThoughts, emotions, coping patterns, stress, and other psychological factors may be relevant.
Social & RelationalRelationships, family, isolation, community, and social conditions can shape distress and functioning.
EnvironmentalWork, housing, violence, discrimination, chronic stress, and other conditions may affect mental health.
Trauma & StressTraumatic experiences and significant stressors may affect mental health and functioning.
Culture & ContextCulture, identity, stigma, and cultural concepts of distress can shape how experiences are understood and expressed.

Conditions & Experiences You May Encounter

These are some of the conditions and experiences pastoral-care leaders may encounter. This is not an exhaustive list. The descriptions below are brief, practical summaries to support pastoral-care awareness.

MENTAL HEALTHDepressionMood, interest, thinking, physical functioning, and daily life+

Depressive disorders can involve persistent changes in mood and interest, along with cognitive, behavioral, or physical changes that affect functioning.

Possible signs
  • persistent sadness or emptiness
  • loss of interest or pleasure
  • low energy
  • sleep or appetite changes
  • withdrawal, hopelessness, or concentration problems
Pastoral consideration: Don't reduce depression to a lack of faith, prayer, discipline, or spiritual commitment.
Professional reference: American Psychiatric Association, DSM-5-TR; NIMH depression resources.
MENTAL HEALTHAnxiety DisordersFear, worry, apprehension, and functioning+

Anxiety disorders involve fear, anxiety, or related behavioral responses that can be excessive or persistent and may interfere with functioning.

Possible signs
  • persistent or excessive worry
  • restlessness or irritability
  • difficulty concentrating
  • physical tension or other physical symptoms
  • avoidance or sleep problems
Pastoral consideration: Explore what is happening rather than assuming worry is simply spiritual failure.
Professional reference: American Psychiatric Association, DSM-5-TR; NIMH anxiety resources.
MENTAL HEALTHBipolar & Related DisordersSignificant changes in mood, energy, activity, and functioning+

Bipolar and related disorders involve episodes of significant mood disturbance, including manic, hypomanic, and/or depressive episodes depending on the specific disorder.

Possible signs
  • unusually elevated, expansive, or irritable mood
  • marked changes in energy or activity
  • reduced need for sleep
  • racing thoughts or rapid speech
  • impulsive or risky behavior
Pastoral consideration: A major change in mood, energy, or behavior is something to explore—not something to diagnose from observation.
Professional reference: American Psychiatric Association, DSM-5-TR; NIMH bipolar disorder resources.
MENTAL HEALTHSchizophreniaThinking, perception, emotions, communication, and functioning+

Schizophrenia is a psychotic disorder that can affect thinking, perception, emotions, communication, and functioning.

Possible signs
  • hallucinations
  • delusions
  • disorganized thinking or speech
  • significant changes in functioning
  • social withdrawal or unusual changes in behavior or perception
Pastoral consideration: Don't automatically interpret unusual experiences as spiritual phenomena—or automatically dismiss spiritual beliefs as symptoms. Explore the person's experience and stay within scope.
Professional reference: American Psychiatric Association, DSM-5-TR; NIMH schizophrenia resources.
NEURODEVELOPMENTALADHDAttention, organization, activity, and impulse control+

Attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) is a neurodevelopmental disorder involving a persistent pattern of inattention and/or hyperactivity-impulsivity that can interfere with functioning.

Possible signs
  • difficulty sustaining attention
  • disorganization or forgetfulness
  • difficulty completing tasks
  • impulsivity or restlessness
  • time-management difficulties
Pastoral consideration: Don't confuse neurodevelopmental differences with laziness, irresponsibility, or poor character.
Professional reference: American Psychiatric Association, DSM-5-TR; APA ADHD resources.
SLEEP-WAKESleep Difficulties / InsomniaSleep problems that can affect functioning+

Sleep difficulties can occur independently or alongside physical or mental-health conditions. Insomnia disorder is a specific sleep-wake disorder; this lesson is not teaching its diagnostic criteria.

Possible signs
  • difficulty falling asleep
  • difficulty staying asleep or waking too early
  • daytime fatigue
  • concentration problems
  • irritability
Pastoral consideration: Sleep concerns deserve attention; don't automatically interpret them as a spiritual or behavioral issue.
Professional reference: American Psychiatric Association, DSM-5-TR sleep-wake disorders and assessment resources.
LOSS & BEREAVEMENTGriefA response to loss; not automatically a mental disorder+

Grief is a natural response to loss. DSM-5-TR also recognizes Prolonged Grief Disorder as a mental disorder with specific diagnostic requirements. Ordinary grief should not automatically be pathologized.

Possible experiences
  • sadness, anger, guilt, or confusion
  • anxiety or numbness
  • fatigue
  • sleep or appetite changes
Pastoral consideration: Don't rush people through a normal response to loss. Pay attention to functioning, safety, duration, and the person's support.
Professional reference: American Psychiatric Association, DSM-5-TR; APA Prolonged Grief Disorder resources.
Faith is part of the person's context.Faith is part of the person's context. In pastoral care, explore how faith is functioning in the person's experience rather than assuming what it means to them.“The purposes of a person’s heart are deep waters, but one who has insight draws them out.” — Proverbs 20:5

Faith, Religious Coping & Culture

AReligious CopingUnderstand how a person's faith may shape the way they respond to stress+

Religious coping is the way a person uses their religious or spiritual beliefs, practices, relationships, or community to understand and respond to stress, loss, uncertainty, or other difficult experiences.

Religious coping is not automatically helpful or harmful. The pastoral leader's job is to understand how faith is functioning in this person's experience.

  • Supportive religious coping can include prayer, meaning-making, hope, connection with a faith community, spiritual practices, forgiveness, or seeking wise counsel. These practices may help a person experience support, resilience, or a sense of purpose.
  • Maladaptive religious coping occurs when religious beliefs or practices contribute to greater distress or interfere with healthy functioning, relationships, problem-solving, or appropriate help-seeking. Examples may include believing that a person is being punished by God for being mentally ill, experiencing intense spiritual blame or shame, withdrawing from needed support, or using religious activity to avoid addressing serious concerns.
Pastoral practice: Ask questions before making assumptions. What does the person's faith mean to them right now? Is it helping them cope, creating additional distress, or both?

Scripture: “The purposes of a person’s heart are deep waters, but one who has insight draws them out.” — Proverbs 20:5

BCulture, Faith & ContextUnderstand the person within the world that shaped their experience+

Culture includes the values, beliefs, traditions, language, family patterns, community experiences, history, and social realities that influence how a person understands themselves and the world around them.

Faith is one part of that context. For some people, faith is central to identity, relationships, meaning, decision-making, and coping. For others, faith may be complicated, distant, changing, or connected to previous experiences of harm.

Context means paying attention to what is happening around the person—not just what is happening inside the person. Family relationships, community, work, finances, discrimination, trauma, housing, social support, and previous experiences with churches or helping professionals can all shape how distress is experienced and expressed.

  • Do not assume that every person from the same cultural or faith community understands distress in the same way.
  • Ask the person how they understand what is happening before deciding what their experience means.
  • Consider both strengths and stressors within the person's culture, faith, family, and community.
  • Let the person's own explanation of their experience inform the pastoral conversation.
Pastoral practice: Cultural competence begins with curiosity. Ask, listen, and learn how this particular person understands their experience.

Scripture: “Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn.” — Romans 12:15

When the Caregiver Needs Care

BurnoutA work-related state associated with chronic workplace stress that has not been successfully managed. AFFINITY™ treats caregiver workload, boundaries, rest, and shared responsibility as program and leadership concerns—not as diagnoses.
Compassion FatigueA term commonly used to describe strain associated with repeated exposure to others' suffering. It is included here as a caregiver-well-being concept, not as a DSM-5-TR diagnosis.
Human-Centered Leadership principle: Healthy pastoral care requires healthy caregivers. Caregivers need boundaries, shared responsibility, reasonable workloads, rest, and support.
WORKING TOOLS

Go deeper with the AFFINITY™ tools.

Look for the Burnout App and the Human-Centered Leadership Resource in the Working Tools area of the portal. These resources give your team practical tools for understanding caregiver well-being and applying human-centered leadership principles.

TOOLS

A Simple Pastoral Practice

“I've been exhausted for months. I can't sleep. I don't enjoy anything anymore. I don't want to be around anybody. I know I just need to pray more.”
What would you explore?Duration, functioning, sleep, support, existing care, beliefs, context, and safety.
What would you avoid assuming?That the person is simply spiritually weak, that you know the cause, or that you can diagnose from what you hear.
What might require additional support?Concerns that exceed pastoral scope, available resources, competence, or immediate safety needs.
THE AFFINITY™ STANDARD

Informed pastoral care begins with informed pastoral leaders.

You are not being trained to diagnose. You are being prepared to recognize concerns, understand the whole person, respect faith and culture, stay within scope, and connect people to appropriate care.

+Professional Alignment & ReferencesWhy these definitions and boundaries are used+

This lesson is grounded in established mental-health terminology and professional reference materials.

  • American Psychiatric Association. DSM-5-TR and DSM-5-TR educational resources.
  • American Psychiatric Association. Supplementary Modules to the Core Cultural Formulation Interview, including Spirituality, Religion, and Moral Traditions.
  • American Psychiatric Association. DSM-5-TR Section III: Cultural Formulation.

Professional references are provided for further reading.

Implementation Check
STEP 02

Organize the Care

Establish the structure that allows your pastoral-care ministry to operate with clarity, consistency, and accountability.

STEP 2 OF 5
WHY THIS MATTERSA pastoral-care ministry needs more than willing people. It needs clear responsibility, authority, boundaries, and a shared way of working.
WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOWHow responsibility is distributed, how decisions are made, how policies work together, and how the ministry is organized for consistent care.
WHAT YOU'LL DOUse the AFFINITY™ framework to organize your church's people, responsibilities, authority, resources, and accountability.
WHAT YOU'LL BUILDA pastoral-care structure that fits your church's leadership, governance, people, and resources.
WHEN YOU'RE DONEYour team will know who is responsible for what, who has authority to act, and how the care ministry is expected to operate.
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Organize the Care

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Organizing the Care: Turning a Care Ministry Into a Working System

A pastoral-care ministry becomes a system when people know their responsibilities, understand their boundaries, know who can make decisions, and have a clear way to move care forward. Organization is what turns good intentions into a ministry that can operate consistently.

People need clarity before they need more responsibility.Your church may already have pastors, deacons, ministry leaders, volunteers, counselors, chaplains, or other people providing care. AFFINITY™ helps you organize those existing people and resources into a clearer pastoral-care structure.“Let all things be done decently and in order.” — 1 Corinthians 14:40

Start With Responsibility

Every pastoral-care ministry needs someone who owns the ministry and people who understand what they are responsible for. Ownership does not mean one person does all the work. It means the ministry has clear accountability for making sure the system functions.

01Who owns the ministry?Establish accountability for the pastoral-care system.+

Identify the person, team, or leadership body responsible for oversight of pastoral care. This role provides accountability for the ministry as a whole and ensures that the established policies and processes are maintained.

Four pieces should be clear: primary responsibility identifies who oversees the function; accountability identifies who reviews or supports that responsibility; backup responsibility identifies who provides necessary oversight when the primary owner is unavailable; and higher-level authority identifies who can make decisions that exceed the owner's authority.

Think system ownership: The person who oversees the ministry does not have to personally provide every care interaction.
WORKING TOOLResource 1 — Ownership & Accountability Worksheet gives your church a place to establish these four ownership and authority decisions.
02Who does what?Match responsibilities to the people serving in the ministry.+

Different people may have different responsibilities. One person may receive an initial request for care, another may provide pastoral support, another may coordinate a referral, and another may provide leadership oversight.

For each responsibility, the church should distinguish between the primary role responsible for carrying the work and any supporting role that assists with it. The goal is not to give everyone the same job. The goal is to make sure every important responsibility has an identified owner and support structure.

WORKING TOOLResource 2 — Pastoral-Care Roles & Responsibilities Matrix applies this primary/supporting structure to the ministry's actual care responsibilities.
03Who can make decisions?Clarify authority before a difficult situation occurs.+

Your team should know who has authority to approve, escalate, consult, refer, document, or otherwise act when a care situation requires a decision.

Teach the distinction between decide, consult, and escalate: a provider may make decisions within assigned authority; a provider should consult when another person's guidance is needed; and a provider should escalate when the situation requires authority, oversight, or action beyond the provider's role.

Clear authority reduces confusion when a situation moves beyond one person's role or when several people are involved in the same person's care.

WORKING TOOLSResources 1 and 2 provide the ownership, authority, and role structure the church uses to make these decisions.

Build the Structure Around the Work

Once responsibility and authority are clear, organize the other pieces around the work the ministry actually performs.

ARoles & BoundariesMake the limits of each role clear.+

Each role should have a clear purpose, defined responsibilities, and appropriate boundaries. People should understand what they are expected to do, what they are not expected to do, and when another role or professional should become involved.

In a working pastoral-care system, boundaries can involve authority, responsibility and scope, competency, safety or crisis response, professional care, confidentiality, complexity, duration or frequency of care, and the provider's capacity or availability. These categories help the team recognize when a situation has reached the limit of a role.

Why it matters: Clear boundaries protect the person receiving care and the people providing it. A boundary should also point to the next step—such as consultation, escalation, reassignment, collaboration, referral, or a change in the type or frequency of pastoral support.
WORKING TOOLSResource 4 — Pastoral-Care Role Boundaries Guide applies these boundary categories to each approved pastoral-care role. Resource 5 — Pastoral-Care Decision Authority Catalog supports decisions about when a provider can act, should consult, or needs higher-level authority.
Related Working Tool: Pastoral Care Scope Policy Manual — find it in Working Tools → Forms & Operations for the written standards governing pastoral-care scope and boundaries.
BPolicies & ProtocolsTurn standards into consistent practice.+

Your pastoral-care policies are not separate documents that sit on a shelf. Together, they establish the standards that guide how the ministry operates. A policy establishes the standard or rule; a protocol or process translates that standard into what leaders do in practice.

Eligibility, ethics, privacy and confidentiality, pastoral-care scope, crisis response, referral, documentation, and other policies should support one another rather than operate as isolated rules.

The goal: A leader should be able to look at a situation and know which policy, process, or resource guides the next step.
WORKING TOOLSResource 3 — Organizational Pastoral-Care Scope Template supports the church's scope decisions.
Related Working Tools: Pastoral Care Code of Ethics Manual, Privacy & Confidentiality Policy Manual, and Pastoral Care Scope Policy Manual. Find each manual in Working Tools → Forms & Operations.
CResources & InfrastructureGive people what they need to perform the work.+

A functioning care ministry needs more than people. Leaders need access to the forms, policies, referral information, documentation tools, training resources, communication pathways, and other materials required to perform their responsibilities.

AFFINITY™ provides the professional structure. Your church determines the people, local resources, contacts, approvals, and other details that fit your context.

WORKING TOOLSUse the Working Tools / Forms & Operations area as the ministry's resource library. The forms, policy manuals, templates, referral resources, and other operational tools live there—not inside this lesson.
DDocumentation & AccountabilityMake the work visible enough to manage responsibly.+

Documentation creates continuity and accountability. Your church should establish where care records are maintained, who is authorized to access them, how information is handled, and who is responsible for reviewing the ministry's operation.

Accountability also means periodically reviewing whether the ministry is following its established policies and whether leaders have what they need to provide care responsibly. Team members should also understand who is responsible for documenting care, following the established documentation procedure, protecting confidential information, and completing agreed follow-through.

WORKING TOOLSThe Working Tools area contains the documentation, privacy, accountability, and operational resources that support these expectations. Resource 6 — Shared Pastoral-Care Expectations Template establishes ministry-wide expectations, and Resource 7 — Leadership Structure Summary consolidates the approved decisions from Resources 1–6.
Related Working Tool: Privacy & Confidentiality Policy Manual — find it in Working Tools → Forms & Operations for the written standards governing pastoral-care records and information handling.
Order supports care.Organization is not about making pastoral care impersonal. It creates enough clarity for people to receive consistent care and for leaders to know how to respond responsibly.“Let all things be done decently and in order.” — 1 Corinthians 14:40
Working Tools ConnectionResources 1–7 and the policy manuals are available in Working Tools / Forms & Operations. Step 2 points you to the specific manuals that support this lesson; the full policy library remains available there for reference and implementation.

From Policy to Practice

A policy becomes part of a working system when people know what it means for their actual work.

A church has a crisis-response policy. A volunteer receives a concerning request from a church member. What happens next?
Know the roleThe volunteer knows what their role allows them to do and when they must involve someone else.
Use the policyThe volunteer knows where the crisis-response process is located and what the established procedure requires.
Move the care forwardThe volunteer knows who has authority to respond, consult, escalate, or connect the person with additional care.
THE AFFINITY™ STANDARD

Don't make your people figure out the system while they are trying to provide care.

A well-organized pastoral-care ministry gives leaders the structure, standards, roles, resources, and accountability they need before a difficult situation occurs.

Implementation Check
STEP 03

Assess the Care

Give leaders a consistent way to understand what is happening before deciding what to do.

STEP 3 OF 5
WHY THIS MATTERSA thoughtful intake and assessment helps the church understand the person's needs before deciding how to respond.
WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOWLearn the intake, assessment, five Care Pathways, whole-person context, immediate concerns, existing support, and eligibility determination.
WHAT YOU'LL DOCollect, consider, and clarify information before moving to a care decision.
WHAT YOU'LL BUILDEstablish your church's pastoral-care intake and assessment process.
WHEN YOU'RE DONEYour team can gather the right information, identify applicable Care Pathways, recognize immediate concerns, and prepare for an eligibility determination.
MODULE PURPOSE

Step 3 teaches the church what pastoral-care intake and assessment are, why they matter, and how to use a consistent process to understand what is happening with a person before determining the appropriate care response. The process moves through Collect → Consider → Clarify, using a whole-person approach to intake and assessment.

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Pastoral Care Intake & Assessment

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INTAKE & ASSESSMENT: WHAT DO THEY MEAN?

AWhat Is Intake?The structured entry point for pastoral care.+

Intake is the structured process through which a person enters pastoral care and the church begins gathering the basic information needed to understand why the person is seeking care. It gives the pastoral-care team a consistent starting point instead of relying on informal conversations or different questions from one leader to another.

  • It welcomes the person and establishes the purpose of the pastoral-care conversation.
  • It gathers basic information about the person and what brought them to care.
  • It identifies the Care Pathways that may be involved.
  • It asks about existing support and immediate concerns.
  • It creates an organized starting record for the pastoral-care process.

In AFFINITY™, intake is not simply paperwork. It is the beginning of a structured care process.

BWhat Is Assessment?The process of understanding the person's concern in context.+

Assessment is the structured process of gathering, considering, and clarifying information about a person's concern, circumstances, strengths, risks, support, and care needs. It helps the pastoral-care team understand the person's experience more fully before determining what the church should do next.

  • Assessment looks beyond the presenting concern to the person's broader context.
  • It considers relevant mental-health, emotional, spiritual, relational, social, cultural, and practical information.
  • It identifies information that may require additional clarification or support.
  • It helps the church determine which Care Pathways and resources may be relevant.

In AFFINITY™, assessment is a pastoral-care decision-support process. It is not a substitute for a clinical diagnostic evaluation or treatment.

Why the distinction matters: Intake starts the process by gathering the right information. Assessment uses that information to understand the person's situation more fully. Together, they give the church a consistent foundation for eligibility determination and the next care decision.

COLLECT

01Start With the IntakeGather consistent information before making a care decision.+

The pastoral-care intake gives the church a consistent starting point. It gathers who is seeking care, what brought the person to pastoral care, what support they already have, whether there are immediate concerns, and anything else the person wants the church to know.

The intake should make it easier to understand the person's situation without requiring the church to invent its own questions each time.

WORKING TOOLPastoral Care Intake & Assessment Form — Find the approved fillable/printable form in Working Tools → Forms & Operations. It follows the intake structure taught here.
02Identify the Five Care PathwaysOne person may need more than one kind of pastoral care.+

AFFINITY™ organizes pastoral care into five Care Pathways: Emotional, Social, Spiritual, Relational, and Practical Care. A person's concern may involve one pathway or several at the same time.

  • Emotional Care: concerns involving emotional distress, grief, anxiety, sadness, trauma, or major life stress.
  • Social Care: concerns involving isolation, connection, community, caregiving, or lack of support.
  • Spiritual Care: prayer, spiritual guidance, questions about faith, spiritual distress, or painful religious experiences.
  • Relational Care: marriage, family, parenting, separation, friendship, interpersonal, or church conflict.
  • Practical Care: food, housing, utilities, transportation, finances, employment, healthcare/resources, or family needs.

The purpose is not to label a person. The pathways help the church understand what kinds of care may be needed.

03Identify Immediate Concerns and Existing SupportSafety and current support are part of the intake.+

The intake also identifies immediate concerns such as danger to the person or someone else, lack of a safe place to stay, lack of basic necessities, or a mental-health or emotional crisis.

It also identifies support the person already has, such as a pastor or church leader, therapist or counselor, psychiatrist or mental-health provider, physician, social or community-service agency, family, or friends.

WORKING TOOLIf an immediate safety concern is identified, use the Crisis & Immediate Response Policy Manual in Working Tools → Forms & Operations.

CONSIDER

04Look at the Whole PersonConsider the context surrounding the concern.+

Assessment goes beyond the presenting concern. AFFINITY™ teaches leaders to consider the person's mental health, theology, religious coping, religious trauma or harmful religious experiences, culture, relationships, trauma, broader life circumstances, and existing support.

The goal is to understand the person's experience in context rather than interpreting everything through one lens.

WORKING TOOLSWhole-Person Assessment Guide and, when spiritual distress or struggle is identified, the Spiritual Distress & Struggle Assessment are available in Working Tools → Forms & Operations.

CLARIFY

05Make Sense of What You GatheredClarify what the information means before deciding what to do.+

Clarifying means reviewing what you learned, identifying what is known, noticing what still needs clarification, and organizing the information needed for the next care decision.

The purpose is not to diagnose or treat. The purpose is to understand the concern, the person's context, the applicable Care Pathways, current support, and any immediate concerns well enough to move into the next part of the pastoral-care process.

06Determine EligibilityUse the assessment information to determine what the church is equipped and authorized to provide.+

Eligibility determination is part of the operating process that follows intake and assessment. It does not ask whether a person deserves care. It asks whether the identified need fits the church's pastoral-care scope, whether an appropriate resource or service is available, and whether any resource-specific requirements apply.

The church's eligibility review considers the identified need, applicable Care Pathway or Pathways, immediate or urgent concerns, pastoral-care scope, available resources, and any established requirements for the resource being considered.

WORKING TOOLAFFINITY™ Pastoral Care Eligibility Policy Manual — Find the policy in Working Tools → Forms & Operations. It provides the complete eligibility determination process and standards.
Important: Eligibility for one specific church resource is not the same as eligibility for pastoral care as a whole.

WHAT HAPPENS NEXT

Assessment prepares the next care decision.

Once intake, assessment, and eligibility determination are complete, the church is prepared to move into Step 4 — Connect the Care, where scope, available resources, collaboration, and referral guide the care response.

WORKING TOOLSThe Pastoral Care Resource Form identifies what the church actually has available. The Pastoral Care Referral Form is used when connection to an outside professional or community resource is needed. Both are available in Working Tools → Forms & Operations.
Implementation Check
STEP 04

Connect the Care

Determine what happens after needs are identified and eligibility has been determined.

STEP 4 OF 5
WHY THIS MATTERSAssessment tells you what is happening. Connection determines what the church will do about it.
WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOWLearn how pastoral scope, available resources, collaboration, referral, and coordination shape the next care response.
WHAT YOU'LL DOMove from assessment findings to a clear care decision and an organized connection to the appropriate support.
WHAT YOU'LL BUILDEstablish the church's care connection, collaboration, and referral process.
WHEN YOU'RE DONEYour team can determine the appropriate pathway and move care forward without assuming the pastor must provide everything.
MODULE PURPOSE

Step 4 is the bridge between understanding the need and deciding what happens next. The church uses the information gathered during intake and assessment to consider pastoral scope, available resources, the need for additional expertise, and the most appropriate care pathway.

The goal is not simply to make a referral. The goal is to connect the person to appropriate care while preserving the pastoral relationship and using collaboration when pastoral and professional support need to work together.
LESSON VIDEO

Connect the Care

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THE CONNECTION DECISION

Once the church has completed intake and assessment and made an eligibility determination, the next question is not simply, “Who can we send this person to?” The team needs a structured way to determine what the church can appropriately provide, what additional support may be needed, and what should happen next.

1. Understand the NeedUse the assessment findings and identified Care Pathways to understand what the person needs.
2. Determine the Appropriate ResponseConsider scope, competence, available church resources, safety, and whether another source of support is needed.
3. Connect the CareContinue within scope, collaborate across the gap, or refer to an appropriate professional or organization.

1. CONSIDER PASTORAL SCOPE

01What Can the Church Appropriately Provide?Scope comes before the service or referral.+

Pastoral-care leaders should provide care within the limits of their role, training, experience, competence, and authority. Identifying a Care Pathway does not mean the church must personally provide every service associated with that need.

The team should ask:

  • What need or needs were identified?
  • Which Care Pathway or Care Pathways are involved?
  • Is this need appropriate for pastoral care?
  • Is the person receiving the level of care the situation requires?
  • Is the assigned leader equipped and authorized to provide the care?
  • Does the situation require another professional, provider, ministry, or community resource?

Working Tool

Pastoral Care Scope Policy Manual — use the written scope standards when determining what belongs within pastoral care and when another level of care is needed.

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02Scope Is Not the Same as CapacityA church may be able to provide something but not have the current capacity to do so responsibly.+

The team should consider both what is appropriate and what is actually available. A church may have a ministry or service in place but lack the personnel, availability, resources, or current capacity to meet a particular need.

This is why Step 4 connects the assessment to the church's established resource and capacity information.

2. REVIEW AVAILABLE RESOURCES

03Know What Your Church Actually HasUse the resource and capacity information established by the church.+

The church needs a current picture of the pastoral-care resources and services it actually provides across the five Care Pathways. That information helps the team determine whether the identified need can be met internally or whether the next step requires connection outside the church.

AFFINITY™ provides the structure. The church determines the actual resources, people, availability, requirements, and local context.

Pastoral Care Resource & Capacity ToolUse the tool the church completed to identify available internal care, services, limitations, and capacity.
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04When the Church Does Not Have the Needed ResourceDo not stop the care process because an internal resource is unavailable.+

If the church cannot appropriately provide the needed service or support, the team considers whether another Care Pathway, outside resource, collaboration, or referral is appropriate.

Eligibility for one church resource is not the same thing as eligibility for pastoral care as a whole. The person should not simply be dismissed because a particular internal resource is unavailable.

Related Policy

Pastoral Care Eligibility Policy Manual explains the relationship between identified need, pastoral-care fit, available resources, resource requirements, and the care response.

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3. CHOOSE THE CARE DECISION PATHWAY

AFFINITY™ uses three decision pathways to help the church determine what happens next. These are not three labels for the person. They are three ways the church can organize the care response.

Continue Within Scope

The church has the appropriate role, competence, and resources to provide the needed pastoral care.

  • The need fits the church's pastoral-care scope.
  • The assigned provider is appropriately equipped and authorized.
  • An appropriate church resource or pastoral response is available.

Collaborate Across the Gap

The person continues receiving pastoral care while also receiving support from another professional, provider, ministry, or community resource.

  • Pastoral care remains appropriate.
  • Another source of expertise or support is also needed.
  • Roles, communication, permission, and follow-through should be clear.

Refer to Appropriate Professional

The person requires a level or type of care outside the appropriate scope, competence, or resources of the church.

  • The team recognizes the limit of pastoral scope or competence.
  • The person is connected to an appropriate professional or organization.
  • Referral is treated as a care connection—not simply the handoff of a phone number.

Care Decision Pathways Reference

Use the three pathways above whenever the team needs to determine whether to continue within scope, collaborate across the gap, or refer to an appropriate professional.

REFERENCE

4. MAKE THE CONNECTION

05Connection Is More Than a Referral ListMove from “here is a number” to an organized care connection.+

A referral becomes part of a pastoral-care system when the church knows why the connection is being made, who is responsible for making it, what information may appropriately be shared, what the person can expect, and what pastoral support continues.

  • Identify the need that requires additional support.
  • Identify the appropriate professional, organization, or community resource.
  • Explain the reason for the connection in plain language.
  • Obtain any permission or authorization required for communication or information sharing.
  • Clarify what the pastoral-care team will continue to provide.
  • Document the connection according to the church's established process.
Pastoral Care Referral FormUse this form to document an organized connection to an outside professional or community resource.
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06Your Church Must Establish Its Own Local Referral NetworkAFFINITY™ provides the architecture; the church determines the local organizations.+

AFFINITY™ cannot determine which organizations your church should refer to because those relationships depend on your community, population, geography, existing partnerships, organizational requirements, and leadership decisions.

Your team should identify the professionals, agencies, ministries, and community resources that the church is actually able and willing to use. Keep that information current and review it periodically.

Do not skip this step: A referral process is not complete simply because a form exists. Your church must know where it can appropriately connect people when needs exceed what the church can provide.
Referral Process GuideUse the guide to help your team establish the local referral process and determine what your church will customize.
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5. COUNSELING INTEGRATION: WHEN C5 SHOULD BE USED

The C5 Counseling Integration Framework™ is a decision-support tool within this stage. It is especially useful when someone wants to integrate faith and mental health, when pastoral counseling is part of the situation, or when a pastor or team member needs a structured process for understanding scope, collaboration, referral, and what happens next.

Referral is an event. Integration is a process.C5 helps the pastoral-care team move through Collect → Consider → Clarify → Choose Pathway → Plan What Happens Next rather than treating referral as the end of pastoral care.Use C5 across multiple pastoral-care decision pathways when the situation involves faith, mental health, counseling, professional care, collaboration, or uncertainty about scope.
C5Use the Counseling Integration Framework™ AppApply the C5 process when the care decision needs deeper structure.+

C5 gives the team a structured way to consider the whole picture before choosing a pathway:

  • COLLECT — gather the relevant information.
  • CONSIDER — consider mental health, life circumstances, faith and theology, support, treatment, culture, relationships, trauma, and other relevant context.
  • CLARIFY — identify what is known, what remains unclear, and what the team needs to understand before deciding.
  • CHOOSE PATHWAY — Continue Within Scope, Collaborate Across the Gap, or Refer to Appropriate Professional.
  • PLAN WHAT HAPPENS NEXT — determine the next action, coordination, communication, and appropriate pastoral follow-through.

C5 does not replace the church's policies. It helps the team apply the decision pathways more intentionally when counseling integration or cross-role care is involved.

Counseling Integration Framework™ AppUse this interactive tool for counseling integration, faith-and-mental-health situations, and scope/collaboration/referral decisions.
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6. REFERRAL DOES NOT AUTOMATICALLY END PASTORAL CARE

The person has been connected to a therapist or another professional. What happens to the church's pastoral relationship?
Keep the roles clearThe church does not take over the professional role, and the professional does not take over the pastoral role.
Continue appropriate supportWhen appropriate, the church may continue prayer, encouragement, spiritual support, social connection, practical assistance, and pastoral presence.
Coordinate when appropriateWhen collaboration is needed, clarify permission, communication, responsibilities, and what happens next.

BUILD IN YOUR CHURCH

Establish Your Care Connection, Collaboration & Referral Process

Use the AFFINITY™ structure below. Your church customizes the local people, resources, relationships, approvals, and procedures. You should not have to invent the architecture.

01 — Define the decision pointIdentify when assessment is complete and the team is ready to determine the next care response.
02 — Apply scopeUse the church's scope standards to determine what the pastoral-care team can appropriately provide.
03 — Review capacity and resourcesUse the Pastoral Care Resource & Capacity Tool to determine what is actually available inside the church.
04 — Choose the pathwayDetermine whether to Continue Within Scope, Collaborate Across the Gap, or Refer to Appropriate Professional.
05 — Make the connectionConnect the person to the appropriate church, professional, or community resource and document the connection.
06 — Prepare for continuationClarify what pastoral support or follow-through remains appropriate so the next stage can continue the care.
Working Tools ConnectionStep 4 teaches the decision process. The operational tools remain in Working Tools → Forms & Operations. Use the Pastoral Care Resource & Capacity Tool for available church resources, the Pastoral Care Referral Form and Referral Process Guide for referral work, the Pastoral Care Scope Policy Manual for scope standards, and the Counseling Integration Framework™ App when C5 is indicated.
THE AFFINITY™ STANDARD

Don't make the person or the pastor figure out what happens next.

A professional pastoral-care system gives the team a clear way to move from assessment to the appropriate care response—and gives the person a real connection to the support they need.

Implementation Check
STEP 05

Continue the Care

Make sure people remain supported after the initial conversation, crisis, intervention, counseling encounter, resource connection, collaboration, or referral.

STEP 5 OF 5
WHY THIS MATTERSUnderstand why continuity of care matters to the person's experience of the church.
WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOWLearn how belongingness and human-centered leadership shape continued care.
WHAT YOU'LL DOExamine what continuity should look like in your church.
WHAT YOU'LL BUILDUse the separate Follow-Up & Continuity Plan tool to establish your church's process.
WHEN YOU'RE DONEYour team will understand the principles that should guide continuity of care.
MODULE PURPOSE

Continue the Care keeps pastoral care from becoming a one-time transaction. The goal is for people to experience safety, connection, belonging, and trust—not simply receive a service and disappear.

LESSON VIDEO

Continue the Care

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01 — Belongingness

Care Should Not End When the Service Ends

Belongingness provides the research foundation for this stage of AFFINITY™. Baumeister and Leary's foundational review described the need to form and maintain strong, stable interpersonal relationships as a fundamental human motivation and found that belongingness has important effects on emotional and cognitive functioning.

Later scholarship continues to examine belonging as an important construct associated with psychological and social well-being. For a pastoral-care system, the practical implication is simple: receiving help does not automatically create belonging.

A person can receive a referral and still feel disconnected. A person can receive practical assistance and still wonder whether they belong. Continuity of care gives the church a way to remain appropriately connected after the initial point of service.

Core idea: Care should not end at the point of service. The church should intentionally consider what the person experiences after care begins.

Research grounding: Baumeister & Leary (1995), The Need to Belong; Allen et al. (2022), review of belongingness research; U.S. Surgeon General, Our Epidemic of Loneliness and Isolation (2023).

02 — Human-Centered Leadership & Continuity of Care

All five domains of the Human-Centered Leadership Model apply to the way a church designs and delivers continued care. Use the Human-Centered Leadership Resources in Working Tools for the full model. In this step, apply each domain specifically to continuity of care.

1. Psychological SafetyCan people tell us when the care is not working, ask for something different, raise a concern, or say they are uncomfortable without fear of shame, dismissal, retaliation, or rejection? Psychological safety research describes safety as a shared belief that a team is safe for interpersonal risk-taking and links it with learning behavior.
2. Resilience & Burnout PreventionHow will the church continue caring for people without creating an unsustainable burden for the people providing the care? Continuity requires shared responsibility, appropriate boundaries, workload awareness, and clear handoffs or endpoints.
3. Trauma-Informed LeadershipDoes the follow-up process account for the possibility that stress or trauma may shape how someone responds to care? The goal is not to assume trauma, but to design practices that promote safety, trust, collaboration, voice, and choice and avoid unnecessary retraumatization.
4. Compassionate AccountabilityHow will the church make sure care commitments are actually followed through? Compassion does not eliminate accountability. Someone must know who is responsible, what was promised, when follow-up occurs, and what happens when the plan changes.
5. Values-Based Decision MakingDo the church's continuity practices reflect the values it says define its care? If the church values dignity, agency, cultural responsiveness, trust, and excellence, those values should be visible in what happens after the initial encounter.
Human-centered leadership question: What does human-centered leadership look like after someone asks our church for help?

Research grounding: Edmondson (1999) on psychological safety and team learning; SAMHSA guidance on trauma-informed approaches, including safety, trustworthiness, collaboration, empowerment, voice, and choice. Your Human-Centered Leadership Model applies these principles through its five domains.

03 — Design for the Three AFFINITY™ Outcomes

The entire AFFINITY™ system is designed around three outcomes. Step 5 gives the leadership team an opportunity to examine whether its continuity practices actually support all three.

FEEL EQUIPPEDLeaders know what happens after an initial care encounter, who owns follow-up, when their responsibility ends, and how to respond when a person's needs change—without becoming responsible for everything.
BUILD THE TEAMContinuity becomes a shared ministry responsibility. The team knows who follows up, how responsibilities are distributed, how handoffs occur, and how the team communicates when care needs to continue, change, or escalate.
MAKE PEOPLE FEEL CARED FORThe person knows what happens next, knows who they can contact, experiences appropriate follow-through, and can remain connected to the church while receiving additional support.

The Leadership Question

What should continuity of care look and feel like in our church?

Based on what you have learned about belongingness, human-centered leadership, and the three AFFINITY™ outcomes, your leadership team will use the Follow-Up & Continuity Plan tool to design the way your church continues to support people after care has begun.

Next: Build Your Follow-Up & Continuity Plan

The next working tool translates these principles into your church's actual process for Pastoral Care, Social Support, Care Connection, and follow-up.

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OPERATIONS

Forms & Operations

Your working area for the tools, forms, policies, and resources the church uses to operate the pastoral-care system.

WORKING TOOLS

Use the System. Then Use the Tools.

The five steps teach the church how the pastoral-care system works. This area contains the working tools that help the church customize, document, implement, and operate that system. Open an interactive tool when available, or open a PDF to complete digitally, print, approve, and use as part of your church's pastoral-care records or the individual church member's/client's case file, as appropriate.

01 • AFFINITY™ DIGITAL TOOLS

Interactive Tools

The training in the lessons teaches your team how to use these tools. The tools are provided here so your church can apply what you learned, practice the process, and incorporate these resources into your pastoral-care ministry.

DIGITAL TOOL

Pastor's Well-Being Hub

Interactive caregiver-well-being resource with burnout and compassion-fatigue assessments.

DIGITAL RESOURCE

Human-Centered Leadership Resources

Human-Centered Leadership materials that support the leadership principles informing AFFINITY™.

DIGITAL TOOL

Human-Centered Leadership Diagnostic™

Use the diagnostic to examine human-centered leadership practices and identify areas for development.

DIGITAL TOOL

Counseling Integration Framework™ App

Use the C5 process when faith and mental health intersect or when a pastor or team member needs a structured process for understanding scope, collaboration, referral, and what happens next.

DIGITAL WORKING TOOL

Build Your Follow-Up & Continuity Plan

Build the church's approach to Pastoral Care, Social Support, Care Connection, and follow-up after care begins.

02 • FORMS & ASSESSMENTS

Pastoral Care Forms

The lessons teach your team the processes and decisions behind these forms. The forms are the implementation tools your church can customize and use as part of its pastoral-care system.

FORM 01

Pastoral Care Intake & Assessment Form

The structured entry point for understanding what brings a person to pastoral care, identifying the Care Pathways involved, recognizing immediate concerns, and understanding existing support.

FORM 02

Pastoral Care Resource & Capacity Tool

Church leadership working tool for determining which services and resources the church is equipped and authorized to provide across the five Care Pathways.

FORM 03

Pastoral Care Eligibility Determination & Care Response Form

Documents the eligibility determination and the care response selected by the church after intake and assessment.

FORM 04

Pastoral Care Referral Form

Documents an organized connection to an outside professional or community resource when referral is appropriate.

REFERRAL GUIDE

Pastoral Care Referral Process Guide

Short implementation guide explaining what the church must establish locally before using the referral process.

03 • SPECIALIZED CARE TOOLS

Assessments & Pastoral Conversation Tools

Specialized tools used when the pastoral-care conversation calls for additional exploration.

ASSESSMENT

Spiritual Distress & Struggle Assessment

A structured tool for exploring spiritual distress and struggle when those concerns emerge during pastoral care.

PASTORAL CONVERSATION

Pastoral Counseling Conversation Guide

Guidance for structured pastoral counseling conversations within the church's pastoral-care scope.

04 • MINISTRY STRUCTURE RESOURCES

Leadership, Roles & Accountability

These resources correspond to the organizational teaching in Step 2.

RESOURCE 01

Ownership & Accountability Worksheet

Establish primary ownership, accountability, backup responsibility, and higher-level authority for pastoral care.

RESOURCE 02

Roles & Responsibilities Matrix

Defines pastoral-care roles and assigns responsibilities as primary or supporting responsibilities.

RESOURCE 03

Organizational Pastoral-Care Scope Template

Helps the church establish the pastoral-care services it provides and the boundaries of its organizational scope.

RESOURCE 04

Pastoral-Care Role Boundaries Guide

Defines the boundaries that guide each approved pastoral-care role.

RESOURCE 05

Pastoral-Care Decision Authority Catalog

Reference for when a provider can act, should consult, or needs higher-level authority.

RESOURCE 06

Shared Pastoral-Care Expectations Template

Establishes ministry-wide expectations for people serving in pastoral care.

RESOURCE 07

Module 1 Leadership Structure Summary

Consolidates the approved organizational decisions from Resources 1–6.

05 • POLICY LIBRARY

Pastoral Care Policy Library

These manuals establish the written standards and operating framework for the pastoral-care ministry.

POLICY MANUAL

Pastoral Care Eligibility Policy

Defines eligibility parameters for pastoral-care services.

POLICY MANUAL

Pastoral Care Code of Ethics

Establishes ethical standards for people serving within pastoral care.

POLICY MANUAL

Privacy & Confidentiality Policy

Establishes expectations for privacy, confidentiality, information handling, and access.

POLICY MANUAL

Pastoral Care Scope Policy

Establishes the organizational scope and boundaries of pastoral care.

POLICY MANUAL

Crisis & Immediate Response Policy

Establishes immediate response expectations for urgent and crisis situations.

06 • LEGAL & LICENSE

Legal, License & Liability

Legal and licensing reference information for the AFFINITY™ Pastoral Care Program. This document is separate from the program's policy library and implementation tools.

LEGAL REFERENCE

Legal Disclaimer, License & Liability Manual

Reference manual for the program's legal, licensing, and liability provisions.

07 • EXISTING PORTAL TOOLS

Case Management & Future Tools

CASE MANAGEMENT

Pastoral Care Case File

Set up a simple case-file process for saving the records that support continuity, accountability, privacy, and follow-through.

INTELLIGENCE

AFFINITY Intelligence

Reserved for the future intelligent support layer that will help staff apply the AFFINITY™ system consistently.